TransFamilies Discussion Forums

Social transition: name changes, new pronouns, new clothes, hair, makeup, when to take certain steps and who decides. Physical / medical transition: puberty delay, hormones, surgery considerations, weight, height, and other body considerations.

Got a new topic to discuss that doesn't fit any of the subjects above? This is the place. As we use and expand the forums, we will be creating new subforums and topics, so don't hesitate to start a new thread. We'll continue to keep the conversation organized as we go.

Pros and cons of going public with your family's story. Protecting your privacy while engaging with media. "I want to change the world. My child says no. What now?

Getting support at school. Legal rights and protections. Strategies for manifesting school trainings. Schooling alternatives. Dealing with reluctant administrations and/or parent pushback. Policies and expectations. A child's right to privacy, name changes, sports and activity participation, bathrooms & locker rooms, overnight field trips, dress codes, teasing and bullying, etc.

Differing parenting styles. Sibling considerations. Grief. Finding support for yourself. Old family photos & videos. Expectations of extended family, friends, co-workers. Best supportive practices. When your kid has a 'checklist' for transition. Launching adult children. Electronic devices and social media.

Birth certificate changes. Passports, Licenses, social security. Setting up "Safe Folders". Travel. Divorce/Custody issues. Gender and precedent-setting court cases.

News and updates about our support groups.

Importance of family support. Physiological origins of gender identity. Gender cognition in children. Desistance myths. Discredited experts/organizations. And more.

Acceptance and rejection in faith communities. Faith-specific discussions (Mormon, Hindu, Jewish, Christian, Catholic, Muslim, Buddhist, etc.)